grown up and immature

someone recently posted an anonymous comment stating

I am an old women,well into my 50's. I read your archives. I know you were trying to be funny,but you are Vulgar. I thought you must be a teen-ager trying to sound like a big man. Your profile says you are a grown up. I will not use mature. I guess any attention is good for some people.

While i appreciate feedback on my comments and it's nice to know that not just the same people are reading this, i need to inform you, old women (are you representing all women over the age of 50 or was that just a typo?) that i'm not here to please you. If you find my comments amusing or vulgar or feel indifferently about them, i encourage you to state so, but this blog is here for me and no one else. It's just icing on the cake that others read it and occasionally find it amusing. this blog is like the little pink diary you had back in the 60's where you used to record your every thought. mine just happens to be electronic, my little lock is replaced with online security and it's not pink. i stated in my very first post that while my alias wasn't intended to be offensive, i, myself, may be. yes, i swear a lot. yes, i state my opinion. and yes, i and my comments may be vulgar sometimes, but that's just who i am. i gave up a long time ago being concerned about what others thought of me.

I'm fairly well educated, well spoken and well read and in person, i'm a pretty decent guy. i do voice my opinion openly, but i also believe in common courtesy and tact, so who i am here may not be how i am in person, 100% out of that common courtesy for others. And my parents taught me that if i can't say something nice about someone, make sure they're out of the fucking room. So, ultimately, if you don't like it, i'm sorry, but no one is forcing you to read any of this.